With all this in mind, I've reached what I believe is an adult perspective about domestic pets, particularly the more dependent species, dogs, and that is: why are we all doing this to ourselves? Destroying our perfectly simple lives with more responsibility and heartache?

WE PAY (Entrophy, August 2019)

But in my trajectory out, I’d had help—from teachers who told me I could rise above, mentors who pushed me to make smarter choices, and maybe most importantly, a sisterhood of women, in books and in person, who had collectively shaped my view of the world, and formed a cultural given for me: women needed to lift each other up.

BETWEEN FRIENDS (Thread Literary Magazine, June 2018)

Emailing in the era of Facebook Messenger was the equivalent of handwriting a letter and sending it by pigeon. A phone call was as intrusive as ringing the doorbell...So I opened my computer and did the only thing I could think of: I sent her a friend request.

THE MAKING OF A PTA MONSTER (Motherly, 2018)

I mean, who were these selfless souls who not only found time to do this, but did it again and again, year after year? Women who went above and beyond making their own kids happy, as they dedicated their time to others’ kids?

30 WAYS TO SUCCEED (The Chaos Journal of Personal Narrative, Fall, 2017)

The first prerequisite of succeeding in today’s competitive world of small business is to have grown up poor, ideally in the 1980s, and to subsequently have read Tony Robbin’s Unlimited Power. Ideally, the copy you will have read will be a signed version by the guru himself, brought home to you by your older sister who has successfully completed his hot-coal-walk/seminar.

MY SKIN, MY KEEPER  (The Flexible Persona, The Corporeal Issue, Fall, 2017)

All those years of lying on the beach from April to mid-October, my body hunkered into sand, my mind drifting as I listened to the ripple of icy water at the shore and seagulls squawking, trained me to tunnel inside.

TEACHING RACISM ("Black Lives Have Always Mattered, A Collection of Essays, Poems, and Personal Narratives", 2Leaf Press, 2017)

I was reminded of an ethics course in college, where I learned about the political philosopher John Rawl’s concept of the “original position,” and his concept of The Veil of Ignorance. Rawls argued that for a just society, people should approach racial, social and political issues from this original position by trying to suspend their knowledge of their own race, gender, religious beliefs, position of wealth, abilities and preferences.

CONFESSIONS OF A COMPULSIVE ENTREPRENEUR   (The Haven, 2017)

Sharing a dining room with bony and gaunt looking diners, I paid $30 for an entree of two slices of raw zucchini smeared with pureed cashews and sun dried tomato paste, aka “lasagna,” made somehow believable after downing bio-dynamic wine.

A BRIEF COSMOLOGY OF COSMETOLOGY   (Salon.com, 2017)

Who were these editors to assume the power to judge that woman too narrow or too wide? Who were they to make corrections and be the ultimate jury over a woman’s beautification?

HOW TO BUILD A MOTHER CULTURE  (Elephant Journal, 2017)

There’s some maternal congruence in that Kim is tall and blonde like my mother was, and that she understands what little I remember about my mother’s personality, but I haven’t exactly worked that through yet.

PARENTING PIECE: ON TALENT VS HARD WORK (Scary Mommy, 2015)

Lying can instill confidence in your kids. Lying can be a prerequisite for parenting. Lying can also be a disservice. One needs only to watch any past season of American Idol — and see those countless delusional kids auditioning — to know that, at least sometimes, leveling with kids is also important.

THE REAL DEAL (YourTango, 2015)

After a five-year run with a bad boy type, I finally released myself from destructive relationships that made me feel racy. "Nice" sounded calm. "Nice" sounded like a future— one without doors slamming, threats being issued, and tires peeling away.

ONE WAY TO GET THERE (Author Magazine, 2015)

Study literature and read anything you can get your hands on. Read to escape. Read to learn. Read to truly live.

MOTHERLESS MOTHERING (The Mother Magazine, 2014)

But this was different. I was now a mother, and mothers were supposed to know things.

A GLITCH (Dan's Papers, 2014)

When we woke, a plague of black flies had swarmed in, making the vacation seem cursed, in the way these things happen.

THEY HAD ME AT TIKUN  (Salon.com, 2011)

Tuesday nights, we carpooled into Manhattan together, and scribbled furiously in our notebooks as Rabbi Jehudi, with his thick beard and tailored suit, explained to us — and the 60 other emotionally stunted people who’d paid a few hundred dollars for the class— that we couldn’t play “the game of life” well until we’d learned the rules.

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